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The Childless Life

My family tree stops with me. The journey from infertility to acceptance in 147 easy steps.

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September 12, 2023 By sandymichelet

The Quiet Ache of a Childless Not by Choice Stepparent

Being a stepparent is complex. Being a childless-not-by-choice stepparent adds another layer of emotional nuance that often goes unseen. During the 2023 World Childless Week webinar I co-led with superstars Janet Glaze and Cara Galbavi, we explored this unique intersection—where grief, love, and identity collide. As a childless-not-by-choice ...

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May 10, 2020 By sandymichelet

Mother’s Day bites. The end.

This post is for those who know and love childless women and couples. Let's face it. Mother's Day can suck. Today may just be a normal day to you....but to many women, it is a nightmare. Yes. Today is Mother's Day. Also known as Crappy Mother's Day to childless women. <== ok, I've never heard anyone call it this....but I am willing to start ...

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January 13, 2019 By sandymichelet

Baby lamp but no baby.

In order for the light to shine so brightly, the darkness must be present. -Sir Francis Bacon While randomly shopping in a local antique village 17 years ago, I walked into a room displayed like a nursery. After a while I saw  a small silver lamp with a teapot bottom and a silver lamp shade((cue the theme from 2001 A Space Odyssey)). ...

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Hello! I am Sandy from Louisiana. I am childless (it wasn't a choice). This blog explores coming to terms with childlessness, finding our inner strength (it’s still in there!) and how to live a life different from what we dreamed…The heartbreak never goes away. But there is joy. We will find it together. Let’s talk. Dig deeper →

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