On the 1st day of Childlessness, my inner voice said to me “This bites, you’ll have no legacy”. On the 2nd day of Childlessness, my inner voice said to me “What did I do wrong” On the 3rd day of Childlessness, my inner voice said to me “I have empty arms” On the 4th day of…
If by some miracle, “a chance of snow” shows up on the local weather report, the city goes into crisis mode because of the impending snowflake. Schools shut down, businesses close and everyone runs to the stores to grocery shop for a hurricane. (That is the only weather related prep we know). It snowed here…
Pilgrims. Pumpkins. Pies. Pturkey. (It’s an alliteration thing…) Yes. There is more to Thanksgiving than the 4 P’s. But since 1621, it has gone from sharing a bountiful harvest to a bastardized holiday that means a.) a day off from work b.) over eating and c.) arguing with some crazy person at midnight in Wal-mart…
When I was a kid I dreamed that I would do something to change the world. I wanted to be one of the first female astronauts or I wanted to create a new type of math (I knew it would be called “subvision’ but didn’t get a lot further than that). Somewhere along the way…
It was a LOT different than I thought it would be. Looking back, I should have read the agenda for the 2 day conference a lot better. It clearly stated the event’s purpose. However, my brain decided that it would be something similar to the Gateway-Women’s retreat. I was wrong. For the purpose of clarification….this…
Today was the 1st day of the Not Mom Summit so….of course, I have to tell ya what I thought on the link below. 1st video on TheChildlessLife.
Welcome to my first (and only) Game of Thrones themed post. Even if you aren’t a fan of the HBO show, don’t worry. This post will still make sense….so keep reading. The blonde lead actress in the show is always introduced (in a super cool accent) as “Daenerys Stormborn of the House Targaryen, First of…
Below is our first guest post written by an incredible author….. Grab a glass of wine, sit back…and read a different perspective. In her own words: I have worked with Sandy for several years, and anyone who knows anything about her will know she is one kick-ass party planner. I’m sure she has planned her…
Sadly, some of the most surprising interactions I have had as a childless woman are in medical facilities who think there are two kinds of women in the world: Those who have given birth and those who will soon. Other than that, the women don’t exist. And it impacts how women take care of themselves….


It’s just like Woodstock – but without the mud
Well….and probably without the drugs and rock and roll…..but I’m not making any promises. In early October, I and a zillion* other childless women (*numbers not confirmed yet) will descend upon Cleveland for the annual Not Mom Summit. The 2017 Not Mom Summit….yeah, one actually exists. For most of us who have been to a…
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